The more years partners in companionable relationships spend together, the more likely they are to regard each other as a pair of old shoes--comfortable, but not very exciting. Unfortunately, such couples are at risk for directing their unexpressed sexual energy to pornography, affairs, and isolated fantasy. In this workshop, we'll explore ways of teaching couples to engage in nonthreatening, mutually reaffirming dialogues about their sexual fantasies and desires that reignite erotic passion. You'll learn how to help partners share their fantasies without undue stress, increase their erotic curiosity about each other, communicate better about what they really want, and express their needs in loving and passionate ways.